Saas for the unglamorous plan
Leave the awkward stuff to an aftermate.
Aftermate helps single guys make a private, practical pact with someone local: if the worst happens, the embarrassing legal stuff gets handled before family has to.
For legal personal property only. No judgment. No performative adulthood.
A plan for the things nobody wants to inherit.
Clear instructions. A trusted person. Less for your family to sort through.
A new kind of contingency plan
No fake testimonials. Just promises worth making.
Private by design
Your pact details stay between the people you choose. No public profiles, no awkward feed.
Local, on your terms
Meet people nearby who understand the assignment, then decide whether a pact makes sense.
A serious plan, lightly held
Clear instructions, legal-content boundaries, and room for the friendship that might come with it.
How Aftermate works
A little less chaos for the people you leave behind.
This is not a will, and it is not a dating app. It is a practical way to document what needs doing and connect with someone who gets it.
Make the list
Name the things that need a respectful exit.
Create a private inventory of legal personal property, add handling notes, and separate “please toss this” from “this actually matters.” Pokémon cards can be complicated.
Find the right local person.
Discover nearby members, start a conversation, and only make a pact when both of you are comfortable.
Confirm the pact.
Mutual confirmation unlocks the instructions you have chosen to share. Keep the plan current; keep the drama low.
Friendship is optional. Decency is not.
Some pacts may become friendships. Others can stay practical and clear. Either way, the point is mutual respect.
Built for a plan you hope nobody needs.
Start with a list today. Add a local pact when you are ready.
Simple plans
Choose the backup that fits your life.
Monthly pricing, cancel anytime. A free list is always available.
The List
Get your affairs out of your head and into a private plan.
$0forever
- Private item checklist
- Personal instructions
- One emergency contact
- Edit anytime
The Pact
For finding a trusted local aftermate and making it official.
$8/month
- Everything in The List
- Local member discovery
- Mutual pact workflow
- Secure contact sharing
- Priority support
The Backup
Extra redundancy when you want more than one person in the loop.
$14/month
- Everything in The Pact
- Two active pact connections
- Backup instructions
- Annual plan review
Future-you will appreciate this
Make the awkward plan before it becomes someone else’s problem.
Set up your private list in minutes. Find an aftermate when the time feels right.